Domina Darja is a Pro Dominatrix based in New York City.

I come by deviance and perversion as honestly as I do my gentle kindness. Taking the time to harness these innate qualities has allowed me a look into the softest and most vulnerable parts of many. Secrets find themselves in my grasp because it is a sacred place.

Far more playful than traditional high protocol Domination calls for, I retain a reverence and hunger for power exchange that honors its teachings. A true submissive is a delight, but fetishists of all sorts bring me pleasure. Heavy S/m, a sprinkle of pain as a tool, or none at all - what matters is your reaction.

I’m a beautiful match for those who desire intensity of connection in tandem with extremity of pain, restriction, or immersion. Unbridled cruelty for those who have yet to understand their desires is of no use to me. Parsing out sadistic acts deliciously, intentionally, savoring each step of the way, watching your brain rewire itself as I control your sensory input is much more my style.

My calling as Mommy is far too strong to restrict my offerings to classical FemDom. The creative freedom of tailoring scenes to a wider range of desires is appealing - but nurturing comes so naturally to me, and sweet ones react so powerfully to my touch - that’s the real reason.